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Sunday, May 24, 2026

Men are taking my advice:

For decades now, I've been pointing out that relationships with girls aren't worth it.  Girls have become loathsome liberals intent on child genital mutilation and other sick goals, with whom a single hour of company would be torture.  They also have a slew of mental disorders that makes life chaotic and unhappy around them.  They're no longer attractive, with 70% of American women either overweight or obese.  They won't have your children, with the fertility rate cratering every year to new record lows.  They're likely to cheat on you, separate from you, divorce you, or just go cold fish and never have sex with you despite supposedly being your wife, and now have the legal right to accuse you of rape and throw you in jail if you object to this.  If you are divorced, which can happen via 'no fault', one-sided decisions, you will lose your income, your assets like your home, and your children, all of which will go to the woman.  It's a completely one-sided agreement where she owes you nothing but you owe her for life.

There will always be a few blessed men who beat the odds, with perfect girlfriends and wives who none of these complaints apply to.  But what are the odds you'll be one of those men?

Slowly but surely, my call for a complete boycott on dating or marrying women or even seeking their approval, has been adopted by the public at large.  Over 1/3 of working-age men are no longer in the labor force.  Like me, they've all given up on impressing women (women won't date men who lack jobs, so dropping out of the labor force is equivalent to dropping out of the dating market), and are seeking happiness through things entirely under their own control.  We will never become dependent on someone as unreliable as the modern woman again for happiness or fulfilment.  We can find all that on our own, and no one can take it from us.  No one has any legal claim against us.  No one has any right to our property or our time.  We were born on this Earth free and we can remain free our entire lives by just not signing our souls over to women.

Even attempting to associate with women is rife with danger.  If you don't seek sex you can't be accused or convicted of sex crimes.  Does this sound like a remote danger?  Not really, a million men are convicted sex offenders in America.  Many more are accused and have to go through some legal process due to said accusations.  No doubt millions have been sued over this in civil court.  Multiple presidents have been successfully prosecuted for this, so it doesn't matter how 'high status' you are, or how unlikely it is you would need to stoop to crime to have sex with a woman.  Professional athletes are likewise accused of this all the time, a category of men you would imagine would never need to assault an unconsenting woman.

Kids all have dream jobs like artist, scientist or athlete.  Very few of them aspire towards anything outside this high-pay, high-prestige, high-fun field of activity.  If you can actually achieve a job like this, it makes sense to work hard and study hard and do whatever it takes to achieve your dream.  Your life will be rich and fulfilling even before a girl enters the picture -- but girls invariably will enter the picture, because they'll be attracted like bees to honey by your success.  Then you can cash in your dream job by also getting a dream companion, who won't be one of these Hillary-supporting, mentally ill, overweight, unreliable slobs.  But that pathway towards a good life is closed off to most men.  Regardless of what children dream, at best 5% of them will get a job like that, followed by an elite woman who's acceptable marriage material.

By all means, every boy should attempt to achieve some high status position in life by coining a rap song, trying out for their local sports team, writing their own book, entering a science fair competition, or whatever floats their boat.  If their initial attempts are met with explosive success well beyond the norm, then it makes sense to pursue that dream and put some real effort into concretizing that potential.  Very quickly there are signs that what you're doing isn't a futile waste of time but is really getting the world's attention.  If you don't see those signs then your rap song, book, sport or garage-room experiment, however intrinsically meretricious, isn't a gateway to a dream job and therefore should be abandoned (except as an enjoyable hobby.)

My advice to the remaining 95% is radically different from my advice to the lucky 5%.  For the 5%, work hard, study hard, follow all the rules and regulations, put your head down and let destiny take its course.  Wealth, fame, power and hot women await you.

For the remaining 95%, who can't leverage some special talent into material success in this world, either because they don't have any talent or the world refuses to recognize it, my advice is to not work hard, don't study hard, don't do what anyone tells you to do, drop out of society entirely.  Most of all don't waste your time pursuing women.  Any woman you could possibly get isn't worth getting.

The amount of money it takes to support yourself with basic amenities is less than $12,000 a year.  If you're really frugal it can be less than $6,000 a year.  This means you can work at any part-time job and easily make enough to pay your bills.  Say you work 20 hours a week at $10 an hour, something any waiter could manage -- that's already $10,400 right there.  Not to mention various subsidies you get from the government, like the earned income tax credit.  You don't have to bust your butt in school and go to college and take on a huge debt to get some useless degree and then work like hell to pay off your college debts and afford a home (which you won't need because you'll never marry or have kids anyway).  Relax and enjoy your life.  It's your life, you have almost all of your time to yourself, you can make of it whatever you will.

There's a plethora of entertainment that's freely available with nothing more than an internet subscription.  It's easy enough to go beyond that and buy all the video games you want, as each game lasts over 100 hours, giving you an expense-to-entertainment ratio of under $1 an hour.  If you really want to be a cheapskate, just go to an online game parlor and play other interested volunteers at chess, bridge or Go.  That could take up your entire life for free.  But you don't have to be that cheap.  Entertainment really isn't that expensive, go ahead and splurge on anything you like, and it will turn out that you still have more than enough to go around.  To fill up all the hours of your free time and more.

On this blog I've detailed hundreds of go-to entertainment resources that can last the interested partaker decades.  Video games are the largest time sink, but the most densely rewarding experiences are my top 200 anime, followed by my top 25 visual novels, my top 75 manga, my top 200 movies, my top 100 authors, and my top 10 tv shows.  Along the way, most of my favorite 5,500 songs can also be heard, as they're mainly embedded in the other works.  Not a single one of these entertainment options requires a girlfriend or wife.  In fact, many of them serve as perfect replacements for the role of 'girlfriend' or 'wife.'  Waifus are generally preferable over real women, and the romances with those waifus are more emotionally rewarding than the likely result of consorting with a real-life woman.

If, somehow, people manage to work their way through all my hall of fame entries, there's a large category of runner-ups that can deliver almost as much fun.  That list is ever-growing as the world continues to spin out wonderful stories one after the next.  Imagine if you started entertaining yourself with my list today and used the next 20 years to go through it all.  That means there would be 20 years of new art awaiting you, completely untouched, virgin unexplored fun, waiting for you to try.  If you spent the next 20 years consuming all that new art, 20 more years of new art will have appeared.  The potential pleasure is nigh limitless.

The real problem isn't the lack of fun alternatives to girls -- it's that life isn't long enough to get through all the fun alternatives to girls.

I think we can all agree that the best things in life are powerful emotional experiences that leave a positive impact on our memories that never fades.  There are very few girls who can deliver such experiences (and not betray and despoil them with their future behavior).  If you're one of the lucky few who can get girls to give you that rush, then go ahead and enjoy girls.  But for everyone else there's Mastercard -- no, that's a joke, please don't go into credit card debt.  For everyone else there's my entertainment halls of fame.  The number of powerful emotional experiences waiting in them, ready to make you laugh and cry and cheer and smile and reminisce, is legion.  Hundreds of such experiences.  Bristling, ready to go, happy to invade your brain.

By a fortuitous coincidence, at the same time women entered the workforce (the 1970's) and thus stopped attempting to become attractive to men, the personal computer was invented, which gave men the chance to construct their own reality from the bottom up.  Ever since then, the world of reality has become ever glummer for men, with their prospects at a wife or girlfriend dimming and dimming to an ever blacker shade of gray.  But the world of fantasy has simultaneously continuously brightened.  We've gone from Pac-Man and Pong to Final Fantasy and Chrono Trigger to Clannad, Sword Art Online and Kimetsu no Yaiba.  We've gone from the Atari to the Playstation 5, with a few pixels for Moon Patrol turning into the beautiful 3-D models of Tifa and Aerith hugging each of our arms as we navigate through the train graveyard.

Reality was really great for men in the past.  They all had access to thin, young, beautiful girls they could marry and have lots of kids with.  As recently as the 1950's this was the norm.  The normal man, even the below average man, could look forward to this reality.

But fantasy today is so much better than anything reality back then had on offer.  Now you can have as many beautiful wives as you want, as many intense romances as you want, all for free.  And on top of that you can enjoy everything else in life, that has nothing to do with romance.  Want to experience an intense war story?  Go watch Naruto or Bleach.  Want to experience an amazing sports rivalry?  Go watch Uma Musume or Hikaru no Go.  Want to laugh at life's absurdities?  Go watch Working! or Spy x Family.  Want to solve a mystery or try out life in a new world or save the world from villains or run a kingdom or power yourself up to God-like levels?  It's all available.  There's a story involving all of that and more.  You can experience a quality version of anything desirable you can imagine.  Fellow men, talented, creative, imaginative men, have come before us and laid down the tracks which our engine of experience need only travel down.  Since men are simple and all want the same things, everything you can enjoy has been imagined and created by some previous man already.  It's all ready to go, waiting for your brain to interface with.

And it's only a matter of time before virtual reality can create a realistic facsimile of what you can experience with a real girl, at which point girls will truly have become completely obsolete.  Obviously anything the brain can experience, can be simulated and copied.  The laws of physics implies there's some way to activate the exact same sensations in the brain as real girls can activate now.  It's just a matter of time before the code is cracked.

I used to complain a lot more about how bad girls in the modern world were and how poorly they treated men.  But I don't complain much anymore, because it no longer matters.  To me girls are irrelevant, and their behavior has no impact on my life.  I've replaced them.  And it turns out at least 1/3 of the entire population of men in America have done the same.  They're quickly catching on, like I have, that girls are no longer needed for anything.

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